Inspiration and resources for balance before burnout
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Bringing The Outside In
Monday, April 9th, 2012
Sometimes when we are craving nature, we are not able to get out of doors for a walk or hike. What can we do to fulfill this need? Why not bring the outside in? Here are 6 ways.
1. Cut Flowers
This needn't cost a lot. A cut boquet from a grocery store or from a field of wildflowers can suffice.
2. The Grass Is Always Greener
Primary grade teachers know how easy this is. Fill a pretty container with potting soil, cover with grass seed, and water. You can have the best lawn in the neighborhood right in your classroom or office.
3. Sand Gardens
You have probably seen the zen gardens with white beach sand to "play" in. Add some pretty stones, shells or a mini rake for your very own sandbox.
4. Bird Calls
CD's of bird songs, bubbling brooks, or crashing waves are another way to bring the outside in. There are now several apps that you can even download on an ipod, ipad or phone.
5. Water Fountains
The sound of water is soothing and a desk fountain can help alleviate dryness of school airconditioning or heat.
6. Outdoor Trophies
Momentos from a day outside or a great vacation can remind you of the pleasures of nature. A pretty stone, piece of driftwood, cut branches or even pine cones, can be enough to muster up memories of a different season.
Personal Retreat – Here I Come
Sunday, March 18th, 2012
Have you ever contemplated a personal retreat … time away from the everyday routines and even the people you share them with?
Last year I went with several women from my church to a monastery in New York nestled on the banks of the Hudson River. It was a moving and life changing experience. This year I knew I needed time to myself to connect with my spirit, creativity, and inner voice. I have been working on newsletters and a new book for The Whole Teacher, but felt stuck and unmotivated. I needed quiet time alone to reflect.
So much to everyone's surprise I decided instead of waiting for another group retreat, I would create my own. It was very simple, but not very easy. I knew I wanted and needed to go alone, but as a mother and wife it was not very natural to me. At every corner I caught myself almost inviting friends or family to come with me. When this popped up, I reminded myself of my purpose and tried to let got the feelings of guilt and discomfort that mom's feel even when heading to restroom for alone time.
So here in these blog entries are my journey. I share with you as a support in your quest for a retreat, and also possibly a retreat of the senses as you read along.
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Monday, January 11th, 2010
The Whole Teacher Daily Planner & Workbook is here!
Monday, December 28th, 2009I am so thrilled to announce the arrival of The Whole Teacher Daily Planner & Workbook!
I have had a vision of a tool to help teachers build balance and into their daily lives and it has finally come true. It is a culmination of the best tools I have been using with teachers to help them beat teacher stress and puts it all into one neat package.
Check out the video I created below, and don’t hesitate to let me know what you think. Please feel free to share with all the teachers you know.
The planner itself is on sale at http://wholeteacher.com/store. Check it out!
Go out with a sense of humor!
Friday, October 9th, 2009Above all else: go out with a sense of humor. It is needed armor. Joy in one’s heart and some laughter on one’s lips is a sign that the person down deep has a pretty good grasp of life. – Hugh Sidney
In October’s Whole Teacher Tidbots I suggested you spend more time with people who lift your spirits. One of the characteristics that is often associated with burnout is negative talk.
We all know someone who is challenging to be around because they are constantly complaining about how bad things are. Sometimes it feels as though they could suck the life out of the room. There is a very fine line between venting and just out right complaining.
Complaining can become a bad habit and seems to breed more negativity, as we seek proof to validate how bad we says thing are. Remember we spoke of 100% responsibility in the last blog? Complainers play a very real part in creating their own reality.
Next time you’re met with a difficult or frustrating situation, instead of complaining, try putting on your "suit of armor". Finding humor in a situation will quickly shift your energy, and often improve the outcome. It will also attract others who are looking for the positive.
Be the change you are looking for!
The Rewards of Harmony
Wednesday, February 4th, 2009A choice that rewards you with a sense of harmony between yourself and what surrounds you reveals something you value. A choice that leaves you feeling empty, or worse — annoyed, resentful, sorrowlful — indicates you’re under the influence of something other than what truly matters. – from A Woman’s Guide to a Simpler Life by Andrea Van Steenhouse.
Wow! Why does this seem so simple yet so challenging? This month as I have been practicing simplifying and organizing my life, I have found that the first step for me has been rest and quiet. Last month after the hub-bub of the holidays I stepped out of the lime light of my business and withdrew to my comfy homelife.
In this quiet, I have been thinking about what is important to me. What I want to keep and what I must let go of. I have been able to begin little projects weeding and pruning by asking myself if they fit in harmony with my life.
This past month the landscape of my life changed drastically. My husband left his position at a bank to finally start his own business. It has been a wonderful and exciting time, yet shifted many family routines.
As I go through each day and make decisions on how to spend my time. I try to take the time to pause to ask myself if it fits in harmony with my new life. Our values are the same, yet the routines have changed, so I can’t take the outcomes of my decisions for granted. It is a whole new playing field.
This was terrifying at first, but now I am enjoying the change that was made to fit our values. He’s closer to home, doing what he loves, and even though he works most weekends, the times we are together as a couple or a family are more precious, because we appreciate them. I believe because he is following his own calling he has more love and energy to give us.
Those who think they have not time
Monday, January 19th, 2009Those who think they have not time for bodily exercise will sooner or later have to find time for illness.-Edward Stanly U.S. Congressman
These past few weeks have been terrible for illnesses here in New England. I made it through the holidays in one piece and then succumbed to an awful stomach bug just after returning from vacation. It was pathetic. I had important meetings at school and tried to push through it, but finally caved in and stayed home.
I know that when I get sick, it is when I have pushed myself to do too much. I stayed up too late, worried too much, and tried to pack too much in to one day. When I am well I can do this and be clear and strong, but I now know that living on adrenaline wears me down fast. But it’s the nature of the job, right?
I suppose, but it wasn’t ending at work. So now I am looking at what I can control and fitting in ways to process that adrenaline before the inevitable crash. The answers are not exciting or new, but basics that help me sustain myself so I can be there for myself and those who need me.
Action Steps:
Exercise - I’m building in a routine at least 3 days a week on the treadmill to start amping up the chemicals that help process the "fight or flight". Now a day when we feel threatened, are bodies get ready to go, but the stress comes and we no longer "run away". The chemicals for flight just build up and leave us feeling anxious. Best way to get through it is to walk or run.
Breathe – Yoga, singing, and meditation all are great ways to get the air flowing. Deep breathing helps get more oxygen through your body and to your brain, which also helps with stress. There is a great deal of research on breathing techniques. My first week back to school I was so busy that I noticed I was holding in my stomach and taking short breaths. Taking time for deep breathing when I feel myself holding it all in has helped to calm my thoughts.
Just say no – Before I take on something new, I check with how I am with adrenaline. If it’s going to get me too crazy I try to say no.
Time Management - Giving myself plenty of time to get things done, or to get to where I need to go, means I can do things without added stress. I used to say I worked better under pressure, but I realize the price I pay in the end isn’t worth the push of procrastination.
Limit the caffeine – I love my coffee in the morning and am not ready to give it up all the way, but I can listen to my body signals and stay away from sugary sodas for lunch. Protein and complex carbohydrates and plenty of fluids also help.
Tidings of Comort and Joy – 5 Ways to Put Some Peace & Quiet into Your Day
Monday, December 15th, 2008Several years ago I made a change from teaching ESL throughout the school to teaching in a kindergarten classroom. I made the change to kindergarten, because I had thoroughly enjoyed going in to one of the kindergarten classrooms to teach ESL.
It was heaven. The children looked up at me with their big wide eyes. They were not afraid to participate. We sang songs, chanted, colored, and pasted. It was the perfect language learning environment.
So I took the plunge and began teaching alongside my friend and two other teachers, each of whom had taught for a minimum of twenty years. I loved the atmosphere and the camaraderie, but then after a few years something changed.
My 2 young boys became the same age as my students ,and nothing would ever be the same. I had a 2 year old and a five year old at home, and 24 four and five year olds at school. Instead of going home full of pride and joy, I went home exhausted, only to play the same role and use the same language in the same tone of voice. I spent every waking moment trying to convince these little people to make good choices and use indoor voices and I was tired. I felt like I had pins and needles poking into me for all the times someone needed something from me.
The worse part was I felt like a failure and a fraud. I was comparing myself to these women who had been teaching this age for decades and still had amazing creativity and passion for their jobs. I wanted to be the teacher I would want for my boys, but I wanted to be somewhere else. I tell you this story, because we all know it. The discomfort that comes from not taking the time for peace and quiet, from not listening to myself.
Thus, I share some ideas for adding a touch a quiet to your day. They may seem very simple, but I can assure you it is not always easy for us to do something only for ourself. Please try. We all need you to be the best you can be. Here they are.
5 Ways to Find Peace and Quiet in Your Day
1. Learn to meditate. Do it daily.
On this month’s Whole Teacher Holiday 911 call, Grace gave us a great point to help quiet the mind during meditation. She suggested that as thoughts came through (like we know they will) to focus instead on the space between the thoughts. As you let the thoughts pass by, focus on making the space bigger and bigger.
2. Try using aromatherapy to calm your senses.
Lavender is great for relaxation. We all have scents that we associate with past experiences. The smell of dove brings me back to my grandmother’s bathroom as a little girl. Find the scents that you associate with relaxing, and one sniff can change your state.
3. Read an inspirational story or poetry.
I have a book of poetry by Hafiz that my yoga instructor would read from before each class. Now, when I read those poems, I can get right to my most relaxed state.
4. Listen to quiet music or soothing nature sounds and dim lighting.
A few summers ago I helped my sister out by working as a receptionist in her spa. I loved the calming music that swept through the reception area and relished the contrast to my own job as a high school guidance counselor. In my office things are often hectic with people always popping in with problems that need assistance. I decided to adopt some of the same atmosphere techniques for my office. I’ve turned off the overhead lights and brought in lights from home, but what students appreciate the most is the music. I have collected CD’s, but often log into internet radio on the computer. There are some great ambiance stations that bring me right back to the spa.
5. Finally, if you can’t escape the noise, consider ear plugs.
Look for the white squishy ones used for sound (not swimming). They come in handy for loud concerts or snoring family members.
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